In Matthew 10:39, Jesus says, “He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.” This verse is our reminder as Christians that selflessness is the way. This is especially relevant as you step into your role as a new dad.

Being a dad is one of the most selfless things you can do. From sleepless nights to balancing work and family, you’ll constantly be putting your child’s well-being above your own. Christ teaches us that it is these monuments where we actually find our sense of purpose and fulfillment.

Today, pay attention to the number of times you put your child before yourself. Count them. It’s this love and devotion that makes a difference in your child’s life. And know with each sacrifice, God is smiling.